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How to Write a Company Manifesto

And Why Every Founder Needs One. Includes a template for you to use.

Apr 2, 2026 · 2 min read

The CEO Loneliness Problem

The CEO role is structurally isolating. Here's why it happens, and what actually helps.

Mar 28, 2026 · 4 min read

Culture Doesn’t Just Happen. You Must Build It.

If you don't, you're building a bad one....

Mar 23, 2026 · 3 min read

The Friday Update Template Every CEO Should Steal

A practical CEO weekly update template with real examples, the full structure, and how to make it a leadership habit.

Mar 18, 2026 · 9 min read

Should you rethink everything?

Why you should question...everything.

Mar 4, 2026 · 3 min read

You Need to Try Claude Code

... or why "I'm not technical" is no longer an excuse.

Jan 28, 2026 · 8 min read

It’s January and You Still Don’t Have a Plan?

You don't need a consultant. You need the right questions. A simple framework for founders stuck on strategy.

Jan 8, 2026 · 4 min read

What Founders Get Wrong About Traction

Founders chase "traction" but don't know what it means. This breaks it down into 5 clear rungs of evidence that actually matter. Growth hide

Dec 20, 2025 · 2 min read

Clarity is a Two-Way Street

You think you're being clear. Your team thinks they're hearing you. You're both wrong. Why clarity breaks down in both directions, and how to fix it.

Dec 8, 2025 · 4 min read

How to Stop Reacting and Start Responding

or… why you shouldn't reply "F YOU!"

Dec 2, 2025 · 4 min read

Consensus Kills

Who Owns This Decision? Why Speed, Clarity, and Accountability Beat Consensus Every Time. A decision making framework for start-ups.

Nov 12, 2025 · 4 min read

The Case for Daily Stand-Ups (Yes, I Mean You)

A ten-minute daily stand-up with your leadership team builds clarity, focus, and urgency. Here’s why I learned to love them.

Nov 3, 2025 · 2 min read

Clarity First

Everything starts with clarity. As a CEO, your job is to remove doubt--about goals, expectations, and what success looks like. Clarity. Clarity. Clari

Oct 22, 2025 · 3 min read

You Fucked Up, Now What?

A simple framework to fix when you mess up. Everyone makes mistakes, but not everyone knows how to recover from them. Mark Josephson shares a simple,

Oct 16, 2025 · 3 min read

The Dangers of Autopilot

A story about a deli’s “Acai bowls” sign becomes a lesson for CEOs on the dangers of leading on autopilot. Learn how to spot when you’re going through

Sep 21, 2025 · 3 min read

How to Make Your To Do List

Learn how CEOs can cut through overwhelm and set clear priorities each week. This simple system--Now, Next, Later, Always--connects to the Friday Upda

Aug 20, 2025 · 3 min read

More! Faster! Now! Forever?

What used to look like micromanagement might be the CEO's operating system for the AI era.

Aug 5, 2025 · 3 min read

Why You Should Send Friday Updates

A practical guide to writing effective Friday updates as a CEO -- how to build trust, align your team and investors, and create a rhythm of clarity, a

Jul 30, 2025 · 5 min read

How to Have Hard Conversations

Avoiding hard conversations is easy, until it blows up. Here’s a simple 4-step framework I use with execs to make those moments clear, honest, and hum

Jul 21, 2025 · 3 min read

Brad Feld’s Give First and the Long Game of Generosity

Brad Feld’s book Give First is about mentorship, but it’s really about something broader.

Jul 14, 2025 · 4 min read

SaaS Math Doesn’t Work in an AI world

or "don't hate the player, hate the game....because it has changed."

Jun 28, 2025 · 3 min read

When CEOs Should Be Involved

The First Ten and Last Ten framework from HelpScout’s Nick Francis is a smarter way to align teams, build great product, and avoid last-minute chaos.

Jun 22, 2025 · 3 min read

What Do You Need From Me?

Lack of clarity kills momentum. This 4-question tool can fix it. RealTalk™ for CEOs, co-founders, and teams who need to get aligned fast.

Jun 18, 2025 · 3 min read

Tapas for One

What we can learn from Clara Ma’s sabbatical, burnout, and business breakthrough.

Jun 16, 2025 · 2 min read

You Don't Have to Pretend to Be "The CEO"

or "the armor we put on for other people." Authentic leadership starts with dropping the act. Reflections from a three-time CEO and executi

Jun 12, 2025 · 3 min read

When Losing Your Voice Leads to Finding Your Purpose

Rap legend The D.O.C. shared his rise, crash, and new mission at the 2025 Yale Ventures Summit. New album and documentary arrive in 2026

Jun 11, 2025 · 2 min read

Getting Back to It

Back to it after a busy graduation weekend. Lots on the plate and more on my mind. How do you organize your work?

Jun 9, 2025 · 2 min read

Double Opt In Warm Intro

How to write a forwardable intro request note

May 23, 2025 · 2 min read

Free Workshop: Prompt Engineering for Humans

Why do we speak more clearly to AI than we do to our teams? We'll discuss what makes a good prompt for people and how it translates = to being a bett

Apr 28, 2025 · 1 min read

How to Interview a CFO

Hiring a CFO at your venture-backed startup? You don’t need creative--you need correct. Here’s how to interview a CFO who can do the job and help buil

Apr 26, 2025 · 5 min read

Prompt Engineering for People

Why your team keeps missing the mark--and how better prompts (yes, like AI) can help you lead with clarity and finally get the results you want.

Apr 22, 2025 · 2 min read

Build It. Nail It. Scale It.

A practical framework for startup CEOs to get clarity, align their team, and focus on what matters most. Build It. Nail It. Scale It.

Apr 21, 2025 · 5 min read

Build the Model. Do the Work. Know the Business.

SaaS CEOs: Stop guessing. Map every step of your funnel to build a model that drives clarity, leverage, and execution--even if it’s wrong on day one.

Apr 17, 2025 · 4 min read

Find Your Simple Math

Learn how CEOs simplify complexity by finding their core business equation. Track what matters, align teams, and focus on high-leverage startup metric

Apr 16, 2025 · 3 min read

How to Interview a CTO

Hiring your first (or next) CTO? Don’t just hope you got it right. Here’s how to interview technical leaders--even if you don’t write code yourself.

Apr 15, 2025 · 7 min read

How to Interview a Product Leader

How to interview a Head of Product or CPO: discover if they’re a builder, operator, or strategist--and hire the right product leader for your startup

Apr 15, 2025 · 6 min read

How to Write a Job Description for a Senior Exec

How to write a clear, effective job description for a senior exec. Help your next VP or CxO know what success looks like--and why they should join you

Apr 15, 2025 · 8 min read

Set Goals You Can Fail At

The best goals are the ones you can fail at. Why falsifiable, specific goals drive real progress--for individuals, teams, and CEOs alike.

Apr 14, 2025 · 3 min read

What It Really Takes to Bet the Company

What CEOs can learn from HelpScout’s shift to usage-based pricing--how to do the work, build confidence, and make bold, high-stakes changes.

Apr 13, 2025 · 4 min read

Welcome to How to CEO

A practical guide for tech and venture-backed CEOs on hiring, managing, and running every function--from product and sales to finance, HR, and perform

Apr 11, 2025 · 1 min read

Your career is not a suicide pact

or "You're going to Hollywood! Damn."

Apr 6, 2025 · 4 min read

Fear Lives in the Unknown. Replace It with a Plan.

or, "Worry less, work more"

Apr 4, 2025 · 2 min read

When You’re No Longer Who You Were

After selling his company, Nick Gould faced an unexpected question: who am I without the job? A powerful story of reinvention, purpose, and leadership

Apr 1, 2025 · 3 min read

Shitty First Drafts: The Secret to Getting Unstuck

or "How I Learned to Love the Worst Draft"

Mar 28, 2025 · 3 min read

Trust Your Spidey Sense

…or, stop gaslighting yourself.

Mar 23, 2025 · 3 min read

How to Create Real Urgency Without Causing Chaos

or "GO! GO! GO! vs. 'Slow is smooth, smooth is fast!'

Mar 19, 2025 · 3 min read

Repeat. It’s the CEO’s Job. Repeat.

or "How to get and stay on centerline."

Mar 17, 2025 · 3 min read

3 is My Magic Number

or "What I learned from De La Soul"

Mar 10, 2025 · 3 min read

The Power of Mentalization in Leadership: Stepping Into Someone Else’s Shoes

Enhance your leadership with mentalization--build trust, improve communication, and foster collaboration by understanding others’ thoughts and needs.

Mar 6, 2025 · 3 min read

Winning Isn't The Goal in Cofounder Negotiations

Or, What I Learned Teaching for a Day at Harvard Business School

Mar 3, 2025 · 3 min read

Kicking the Can: The Cost of Avoiding Hard Conversations

Or, just do it.

Feb 25, 2025 · 3 min read

It's the Feelings, Stupid!

Or, 🎶 "whoa, whoa, whoa, feelings!"🎶

Feb 19, 2025 · 2 min read

From Gut Punch to Exit

or "Do You know how to skate?"

Feb 17, 2025 · 5 min read

The Truth About the Best Talent

Why Clarity & RealTalk™ Matter

Feb 14, 2025 · 3 min read

You suck AND you rock!

Leadership lessons from Bruce Springsteen

Feb 10, 2025 · 3 min read

Happiness is a Well-Fed CEO

How to Build a Healthy Data Diet

Feb 4, 2025 · 4 min read

Why Your First Move in a Crisis Should Be Nothing

What I Learned from Aziz Hasan’s First Day as CEO of Kickstarter

Feb 3, 2025 · 2 min read

Burn the Boats: Why You Need to Go All In

Or "How an actual elevator pitch changed everything!" 🛗🔥

Jan 27, 2025 · 2 min read

Take that Call

Should You Take the Leap? Lessons from My Critical Moments Conversation with Michelle Benfer

Jan 20, 2025 · 3 min read

Embrace Resilience

The Unpredictable Path of Entrepreneurship.

Jan 7, 2025 · 4 min read

How to Fail: A Masterclass

What you can learn from Sci-Fi Foods’ “graceful exit."

Dec 16, 2024 · 3 min read

Relationships Matter

What if your boss told you "You're not well-liked!"

Dec 11, 2024 · 3 min read

Wouldn’t It Be Great if…

Building a start-up is a never-ending sprint for growth.

Nov 11, 2024 · 4 min read

RealTalk™: The Gift of Honest Communication

Have that hard conversation. Your team will thank you.

Nov 4, 2024 · 4 min read

Rituals: One Way to Find Balance

Your job, Your family, yourself, pick any two.

Oct 28, 2024 · 4 min read

How Can I Help?

Why I love coaching and how I approach it.

Oct 21, 2024 · 4 min read

5 Slides to Clarity: Simplify Complex Business Challenges

Manage up and down and get better results, with this simple framework

Aug 7, 2024 · 4 min read